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What to Say When Clients Go Silent (and how to follow up without sounding desperate)

You had a great call. You sent your proposal. And then… nothing. No reply. No feedback. Not even a polite “Thanks, but we went with someone else.” Just radio silence. 🎧🕳️ You’re not alone — every freelancer has faced this. The good news? You can follow up without being annoying or desperate. Here’s how:

Blago Yanakiev
Blago Yanakiev

Jan 01, 1970

🤫 First, why do clients go quiet?

It’s not always personal. Sometimes they:

  • Got busy

  • Lost budget

  • Changed priorities

  • Just forgot to reply 🙃

So let’s give them the benefit of the doubt — but not forever.

 


 

⏱️ When to follow up:

  • 2–4 business days after your last message

  • 1 week later if still no reply

  • Once more when the project deadline is approaching or the ad closes

That’s it. Three messages max. If they don’t respond after that — move on with grace.

 


 

 

📬 What to say (Templates you can copy)

#1 – Light follow-up after a proposal

Hi [Name], just checking in on my proposal for [Project Name].
Let me know if you have any questions or need anything else from me.
I’d love to hear your thoughts!

 


 

#2 – Still no reply? Try this:

Hi [Name], I wanted to follow up in case my last message got buried.
If the project is still open, I’d be happy to support it.
If things have changed — totally understand! Either way, I appreciate the opportunity. 😊

 


 

#3 – Project is likely closed:

Hi [Name], I saw the project may have wrapped up — hope it went well!
I’d love to stay in touch for future opportunities if the timing’s better then.

 


 

✅ Final tips:

  • Be short. Be warm. Be easy to reply to.

  • Don’t chase endlessly — three nudges are enough.

  • And most importantly: don’t take silence personally. Their lack of reply says more about their process than your work.

 

You’re a professional — not a spammer.

Polite persistence shows that you care.

Desperation? That’s when you email seven times in one day (please don’t 🙃).

 

 

Still not hearing back? Focus your energy on better clients — the ones who do respect your time and reply. They’re out there.

 


 

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Blago Yanakiev

Blago is a cofounder and head of product at 9am.works.

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